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The alt.sex FAQ, Part 8: FELLATIO - ORAL SEX UPON A PENIS

To: alt.sex,alt.sex.wizards,alt.sex.oral
From: elf@coho.halcyon.com (Elf Sternberg)
Subject: The alt.sex FAQ, Part 8: FELLATIO - ORAL SEX UPON A PENIS
Date: 23 Jul 1996 19:11:24 GMT

FELLATIO - ORAL SEX UPON A PENIS

What is Fellatio?

Fellatio, giving head, giving a blow-job. Many men love this kind of 
stimulation, and many people, both women and men, like giving it. 
Fellatio is the act of applying your lips to a man's penis with the 
purpose of giving him pleasure.

There are few tips to fellatio that can be given other than practice. 
The lips and the tongue are the major sources of stimulation, and it 
is with the lips and tongue that you should apply the attention to 
make him feel good. Both men and women respond well to pressure and 
rhythm. A steady, strong stroke will be enough to get the reaction 
you're looking for.


What if it doesn't smell or taste good?

If the smell isn't something you enjoy, then tell him to go take a 
shower! While this is something you're doing primarily for his 
pleasure, that doesn't mean you have to suffer if he's lacking in 
hygiene! And if you're worried about germs, your mouth has millions 
more germs than a clean penis.


What is "deep throating?"

Deep throating is the act of taking the penis down past your gag 
reflex. In reality, this particular sexual adventure is very 
overrated. The best way to give fellatio is still with the lips and 
tongue, taking only as much as you can without gagging. However, for 
those that want to know, the basic lesson is still practice. Take the 
penis as far as you can without choking, and then close your eyes and 
concentrate, taking each quarter inch, telling yourself that you 
won't choke, that you can take it out at any time, and slowly swallow 
it down. Then rise off of it just as slowly.


Are there any special spots on the penis?

Every penis is different, and each has its sensitive spots and its 
preferred ways of being handled. Listen to your lover. The sounds he 
makes and the feel of his body tensing are your best clues that 
you're going this right.


Should I use my hands?

Feel free to grasp with your hands whatever of the penis you can't 
fit into your mouth. Many men like as much stimulation as possible, 
and the feel of a wet mouth and a saliva-slicked hand are enough to 
send them to the brink of orgasm very quickly.


What is 69?

Some people feel that the best position to perform oral sex is the 69 
position, where each partner lies with their head by the other's 
genitals. For fellatio, this even makes sense-- most penises curve 
upwards, towards the head, and in this position that curve matches 
the curve of the throat. However, it is difficult to both perform and 
appreciate oral sex at the same time. Try the position, or kneel by 
his body, but at least in the beginning do one thing at a time.


My boyfriend wants me to swallow. What do I do?

Which brings us to a sensitive issue: swallowing ejaculate. For many 
men, this is important to them-- they like to feel that by swallowing 
their semen, you complete this act of lovemaking and accept a part of 
themselves into your body. But many people don't like the taste of 
semen and can't bring themselves. Talk about this beforehand-- let 
him know if you can't handle it, and that it's not personal.


Can I make my seminal fluids taste better?

Macrobiotic nutritionists have actually done research on this 
question, and the answer is in: you are what you eat. Common sense 
dictates that if you taste good, your lover will want to eat you more 
often, so improving your body's taste and smell should be important 
to you.

In general, nutritionsists say that alkaline-based foods such as 
meets and fish produce a butter, fish taste. Dairy products, which 
contain a high bacterial putrefaction level create the foulest 
tasting fluids by far. (Dissent: almost everyone I know says that 
there is one worse than a high-dairy content-- asparagus. You can't 
miss the taste of asparagus-laced semen.) Acidic fruits, such as 
sweets, fruits, and alcohol give bodily fluids a pleasant, sugary 
flavor. Chemically processed liquors will cause an extremely acidic 
taste, however, so if you're going to drink alcohol, drink high-
quality, naturally fermented beers (Rolling Rock or Kirin) or sake.


What are the contents of semen?

The question of semen content arises especially among persons who 
regularly swallow semen, as in fellatio, and who are concerned about 
calorie intake and nutritional substances. The average ejaculate 
contains aboutonia, ascorbic acid, blood-group antigens, calcium, 
chlorine, cholesterol, choline, citric acid, creatine, 
deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA), fructose, glutathione, hyaluronidase, 
inositol, lactic acid, magnesium, nitrogen, phosphorus, potassium, 
purine, pyrimidine, pyruvic acid, sodium, sorbitol, spermidine, 
spermine, urea, uric acid, vitamin b12, and zinc.

The caloric content of an average ejaculate is estimated to be 
approximately 15 calories. 


A last word.

There is only one true way to do fellatio, and that's with 
enthusiasm. You have to love what you're doing to him, either because 
you love him or you love sucking cock. Loving both is best! Faked 
orgasms have nothing on lackluster fellatio.
--

Elf Sternberg               	I'm not inclined to write pompous
elf@halcyon.com             	books about unanswerable questions.
Public key available        	That strikes me as a tremendous waste
http://www.halcyon.com/elf  	of time.
                            			- Stephen Jay Gould

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