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'Fisting', The Art Of.

To: soc.sexuality.general
From: elf@drizzle.com (Elf Sternberg)
Subject: Re: 'Fisting', The Art Of.
Date: 5 Aug 2001 22:31:00 -0700

In article <9kk0km$ebc$1@uranium.btinternet.com> 
    "Paul Deery"  writes:

>    So, my question goes out to all, and basically I was wondering if
>anybody out there can provide any sort of overview on the pursuit of
>'fisting'? I would like to know a bit more about it, on all sorts of
>levels.  Technical and otherwise.

        That depends.  What kind of fisting are you talking about?
Vaginal or anal?  The basics of fisting are like that of any sex-- take
it slow, stop if it's starting to hurt, and listen to your partner tell
you what you want.  The real secrett is simple; you're not shoving an
authoritarian fist into an unreceptive hole; you have to seduce the
vagina or anus, let it let you in, and let your partner have the pleasure.

>    Apart from the basics (which I would like to know), I was also
>wondering what kind of pleasure the person being 'fisted' receives?

        As someone who likes fisting from both ends, there's certainly a
psychological attractiveness to it, something that encourages me to want
it, but the physical pleasure is... well, let's just say that it's
something quite amazing.  Every last braincell is telling you that what
you're doing is both terrible and wonderful.

        At one party I attended several years ago I had an opportunity
to fist a young lady who had never done fisting with a man before, only
other women.  It took us about half an hour to get to the point where my
hand was finally entering her vagina fully, and just as goosenecked my
hand, my thumb pressed to the palm, I and her girlfriend were coaching
her softly.  She was completely spaced out on the sensations what I was
doing were sending into her brain, and I felt I needed to get in touch
with her before I went further.  So I started to talk to her softly,
trying to get her to talk to me.  I said her name several times, and
then said, "Red, yellow, or green?"  She was gasping and moaning and I
couldn't make out anything coherent.  The colors are a common tool among
sadomasochists for communicating what they want: "stop", "go slow", or
"more!"  I asked it again.  "Red, yellow, green?  Red, yellow..."

        "Green!  Green!  Kelly fucking green!"

        About thirty seconds later, well... let's just say it's rare I
get to see a woman orgasm that amazingly hard.  Damn near cut off the
circulation in my wrist.

                Elf

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Elf M. Sternberg, rational romantic mystical cynical idealist
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