Hello. 
          . .
        We were playing 
          in the TACO Chat 
          Room the other day, talking about the “Arenot family” 
          and I thought it would be fun to share them with you. We were talking 
          about overcoming the voice in our minds that is always saying “I 
          am not.” As in, “I am not good enough. I am not young enough, 
          wealthy enough, kind enough, free enough. . ..or. . . funny, tall, buff, 
          accepting, slim, spiritual, happy, expert, or sexy enough.” When 
          we accept that there is really only one expression of consciousness 
          here, one vast complex manifestation of the Divine, and that each and 
          every one of us IS that Divine expression, we come to know ourselves 
          as “I AM.” We come to know the perfection that we are in 
          that Divine Expression.
        When we know ourselves 
          as the I AM, we still must understand that most people are still doing 
          “I am not/ we are not.” They are a large family or clan, 
          that we named the “Arenots.” And most people are trying 
          to keep up with the Arenots. In fact, they sometimes argue for the best 
          Arenot story:
        “Wow, I am 
          so NOT happy. You should hear the horrible thing that happened to me.”
          “Hey, that’s nothing! I am so much more not happy than you!” 
          
        The I AM family 
          is attractive to some of the Arenots, and they defect. The I AM family 
          is happy to have new members, but it makes the Arenots very nervous 
          when someone goes to the I AM’s. They will try to get them back, 
          by reminding them that they are an Arenot:
        “You Arenot 
          as happy as you think you are. Nobody could always be happy like that. 
          You must have been brainwashed.” 
          “Well,” responds the new I AM, “brain-cleaned might 
          be a better way of saying it. I washed out the Arenots.” Of course, 
          the Arenots can never understand I AM language, but the I AM’s 
          can always understand the Arenots— although they usually prefer 
          to not talk Arenot language very much.
        There are some other 
          branches of the Arenot family, the Asoonas’s, the Neverbes, the 
          Onlyifs, and the Maybelaters. But they are a different story.
        For now, I am just 
          curious which clan you belong to. . .?
        If you are not sure, 
          you can always tell by the language you speak.
        
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