On Conflict - The War with Iraq   
        When 
          one side needs their dream to be RIGHT. . . 
        The 
          Toltecs teach us that everyone is dreaming their own personal dream, 
          based on their beliefs and the unique way they interpret reality. 
        Conflict occurs 
          between mates, parents and children, nations, friends, neighbors or 
          lovers when there is not mutual respect for the beliefs of the other. 
          When one side needs their dream to be RIGHT, they must make the other 
          wrong. Since nobody wants to be wrong, each must fight to be right. 
          In the fight to be right, there are no winners. 
        Can you, today, 
          respect those who believe differently than you, and be free from conflict 
          with them? Even their beliefs about war? Nobody is wrong, because everyone 
          is dreaming their own personal dream, and that reality is perfectly 
          right for them. (Note: Accepting someone's dream does not mean that 
          you like it or want to have lunch or a war with them!). And can you 
          love and accept all of the different dreams and belief systems that 
          live inside your own mind? Each has its own story, and if each is respected 
          you will end the conflict that lives inside of you. An end to the conflicts 
          in our own minds will surely lead to an end to the conflicts in your 
          world. As within, so without. 
        Blessings in these 
          challenging times.
            
        
           
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