Answering the Soul's Desire for Connection
The Weekly Word #17 ~ Christmas, 2007
Have you ever thought about your need for relationship and connection
with others of your species? From the beginning of human time, we
have lived in families, tribes, communities, villages, and other close
forms of relationships with each other. Humans are herd animals--
historically we have never lived alone, in fact, until quite recently,
we could not have survived alone.
The villages and communities have evolved over time, and now have
slowly broken down from large extended family relationships to what
seemed to be the basic form, the family of man/ woman/ child. Now
we find even that form breaking down, with a majority of families
coming apart, and children being raised in single-parent households.
Many people live alone without any significant personal relationships
at all.
None of this evolution has changed the need of humans to relate and
be in community. If you see the violence in the daily news, you are
seeing the results of individuals getting lost in the dream, without
anyone close to them to say, "Hey, come back, you are too close
to the edge."
Here in this village of Chacala, Mexico where I am living now and
writing this, it is very unusual for anyone to live alone (except
us gringos). This is a country of family and community. Once a week
the parents and kids are out raking and cleaning the school grounds
together, burning piles of leaves, laughing, and telling the stories
that bond them as community.
The weather here is always warm, so people are out and about, seeing
and visiting with the same neighbors and relatives that they see every
day, and have known all their lives. They know if someone is having
trouble, and they accept and love them-- they are held at the bosom
of community.
I think that holidays like Christmas, and the special celebration
times of all religions and cultures, are important because they are
times for us to return to our connection with families and communities.
We make pilgrimages to family homes, gather with relatives and friends,
and celebrate in community.
It is unfortunate that people who have isolated themselves from those
connections suffer even more at these times, because it reminds them
of their soul's yearning for connection, and their inability to connect
or the absence of close connections.
My wish for you this season of life is that you are connected to community,
people, love, and Life, in whatever way and form is appropriate for
you.
Celebrate Life. Celebrate Love and connection. Be present, really
present, with yourself and others.
Many of us have created and celebrate with spiritual communities,
as a replacement for the broken connections of family and place. If
you are longing for a deeper connection with like-minded souls, I
invite you to explore TACO, Joydancer.com's online community, where
we are "Creating Spiritual Community Through Love in Action."
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